Purple buTTerfly

不一定

逃避不一定躲得过

面对不一定最难受

孤独不一定不快乐

得到不一定能长久

失去不一定不再有

转身不一定最软弱

  别急着说无选择

以为世上只有对与错

许多事情的答案都不是只有一个

所以我们永远有路可以走

  你能找到理由难过

也一定能找到理由快乐

懂得放下的人找到轻松

懂得放开的人找到自由

懂得关怀的人找到朋友

懂得开怀的人找到快乐

改变从今天开始！

STEP 1. 心态管理

        你用什么样的心态对待生活，生活就怎样对待你。

        你用什么样的态度对待别人，别人就用什么样的态度对待你。

        在这个世界上，

        理所当然的事会越来越少

        而值得感恩的事会越来越多

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一

我走在街道上

有个深洞在人行道旁

  我掉进了深洞

我迷失......我彷徨

  这不是我的错

我花了很张的时间才回到地面上

二

我走在街道上

有个深洞在人行道旁

我没看见......我假装

  我再次掉进了深洞

我无法相信竟到达同一地方

  但这不是我的错

我仍然花了很张的时间才回到地面上

三

我走在街道上

有个深洞在人行道旁

我看见它在那里

我又掉进了洞，这是习惯的力量

我知道我在何方

我张开双眼......是我的错

  我很快就回到了地面上

四

我走在街道上

有个深洞在人行道旁

我绕过它走向前方

五

我走在另一条街道上

It was recently reported from the nervous system that my world is at war with itself, but here I am not talking about bombs and guns, rather that my 2 thoughts are armed with their different point of view, poised to fight for their different life style.

Skyscraper, coffee bars surrounded, top office building, busy work, rush hour, fashion guys in skinny jeans and neck ties during the week. On Friday evenings, legs and heels are on the show in the night clubs. I don’t exactly follow the trends set by fellows like someone called BOBOS, but I really get used to this kinda life. So what’s the debate? Well, according to the elder’s opinion:” make concessions in order to gain advantages”. That’s why I am here now: typical government building, sophisticated people and the great work. Maybe I could provide a less biased view on the discussion as a girl born and bred in the deep south but attending University in Beijing.(I’d just like to add at this point that I am a Northerner).

My mind B confidently says to me: you are willing to be changed like this, aren’t you?  You were too busy to have free life before and you want to try different way, don't you? The answer is absolutely right, but the things let me feel a little annoyed is that each time when I calm down my mood and try to be involved in working out a plan, my former colleagues jump on line and say:”hi, mate, where are you? Are you all right? we like the rock songs in the laptop you left!” Instead I listen to the national song and Chinese People’s Liberation Army marching song every morning in office that is because one of my leaders here likes them very much. I am a Patriotism and communist as well, but I don’t know why every single morning when I get down my car with hot music walking into my office which is full of patriotic songs , suddenly I feel I am back to liberation-war period. Honestly, sometimes I am in embarrassment situation, so is she! Last week, I’ve got a text from her urgently said :”I am awarded to be an excellent member of the communist party by King&Wood and the commending conference will be held on Friday afternoon and I need submit a report within 1000 words , how to write it ? Hurry up!”. It is a great honor, no doubt, but the fanny point is that I can hardly imagine a cool girl with uk style and eye-liner even get on the Medals podium for excellent communist…wow..!! Here it is worth mentioning that

today is Party's Day: Happy birthday to our Party!

Ps:tmr.

昨晚收到健泼哥哥的短信说今天一早出发参加成都某基地的数据恢复工作。他年轻的心真诚又激情澎湃，总是能够感染我，比起他当祖国遇难时放弃远在德国的妻儿飞到灾区尽自己的一份力量，我们捐助的那点资金真的不足以挂齿。在灾难面前人的生命如此脆弱。这让我深深的感受到我们能健康的活着应该学会感恩。这几天通过媒体看到那么多悲惨的场面，忽然觉得我们平时追求的，计较的都不重要。2008年5月19日14：28分北京默哀时场面很感人。整个北京城那刻鸣声顿起，仿佛像一只巨大的雄狮因为失去亲人发出撕心裂肺的吼叫，我们都落泪了。。。。

大灾大难虽然给我们带来残酷和巨痛，但是也给我们带来坚韧和智慧！特别是对我们不谙世事的年轻人，能把我们从身在福中不知福中警悟！善恶一念间，福祸一瞬间，好坏能转换，这些道理既平易又深奥。让我们所有的人都学会知恩、感恩，懂得珍惜与同情吧。

记得，第一次去香港是一九九六年，香港回归前一年。一个形状为一九九七的别致发卡卡住我长长的头发，那时的我聪明，安静，有灵性。整个夏令营中我有别于其他孩子打闹，玩耍，惊奇的看着高楼大厦。我很用心的搜集资料，留意每一点内地与香港的不同，认真地记录下来每一天的感触，以至于回来后我的那篇游记成为了全班同学传看的范文。也是那一次，我让崇敬已久的语文老师记住了班级里那个不太爱讲话，总是用一个形状成1997漂亮发卡卡住马尾辫的小女生。那年我十三岁。

之后，也去过香港很多次，但每次都是短暂的停留。似乎再也不可能有那种心境和时间让自己的心停住用童真去感受它了------这个充满魅力的小岛。

世界的步伐很快，就像The world is flat 中形容的那样：“在非洲，瞪羚每天早上醒来时，她知道自己必须跑得比最快的狮子还快，否则就会被吃掉。狮子每天早上醒来时，它知道自己必须超过跑的最慢的瞪羚，否则就会被饿死。不管你是狮子还是瞪羚，当太阳升起时，你最好开始奔跑”。事实上，我们每天确实是这样拼命奔跑着，因为我们害怕会被吃掉，仰或者怕被饿死-------

翻阅着港龙提供的杂志，看着周围纷纷打开手提电脑的商务人士们，我觉得自己再也回不到十三岁那年了，那般的纯真无邪充满灵性。

转身看她，毫无意外，她正不停的敲打着键盘，旁边放着需要审阅的文件。我回过头，闭上眼睛，那刻的心酸难以用言语来表达，我不知道在这个关键时刻让她和我一起来出差工作是否太自私了。我和她认识有三，四年，在英国时虽然经常在伯大的某个角落或者聚会上碰面，但决不足以交心到一起谈梦想，看人生。“中国会是我的发展基地，但我的目标是Global Investment, 我想拥有的不是一个行业，实业，而是金融，投资和基金。我知道其实实业会比操作国际金融赚钱，但不知为何我偏向后者。亲爱的，你呢？你的目标是什么？远景？”。 看着她传递过来的纸条，我想到爸爸对我们说的话：“混人混事都要有个好心态：得之坦然，失之淡然，争之必然，顺之自然。如此，才能不以物喜，不以已悲，宠辱不惊。方可达到厚德载物，守正出奇的至高境地。”父辈们的那些大智慧，我们似乎真的要用一生去学习，去领悟。

一直以来我很讨厌选择，但是我们的生活却处处让我们选择。“懂得珍惜，学会放弃。。。”。如果说争取需要勇气，那么放弃需要更大更坚定的勇气。人生就是一场旅行，在旅途中，倘若我们背载的东西太多太多，纵使我们有一副钢筋铁骨，也会被压倒在地。如果我们可以学会放弃，我想我们每天都可以像二零零八年四月十二号零晨那样歇斯底里从内心深处开怀大笑。爱与恨一向是有原由，我深信。他转身走向人群…….那瞬间我一切都明白了，无需你更多的解释，更多的借口，因为我看到了我们身上没有的东西。学会放弃吧，像他那样。什么时候学会放弃，什么时候便学会了成熟。

  For you and I together.There will never be anything we can not do .

                          Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to

                                  doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

                           Love is a master key which opens the gate of happiness.

                                         Let's smile...

　　One day, the boy returned and the tree was so excited. "Come and play with me" the tree said. "I don't have time to play. I have to work for my family. We need a house for shelter. Can you help me?" "Sorry, but I don't have a house. But you can chop off my branches to build your house." So the boy cut all the branches off the tree and left happily. The tree was glad to see him happy but the boy never came back since then. The tree was again lonely and sad. 

One hot summer day, the boy returned and the tree was delighted. "Come and play with me!" the tree said. "I am sad and getting old. I want to go sailing to relax myself. Can you give me a boat?" "Use my trunk to build your boat. You can sail far away and be happy." So the boy cut the tree trunk to make a boat. He went sailing and never showed up for a long time. Finally, the boy returned after he left for so many years. "Sorry, my boy But I don't have anything for you anymore. No more apples for you..." the tree said."I don't have teeth to bite" the boy replied. "No more trunk for you to climb on" "I am too old for that now" the boy said. "I really can't give you anything ... the only thing left is my dying roots" the tree said with tears. "I don't need much now, just a place to rest. I am tired after all these years." The boy replied. "Good! Old tree roots is the best place to lean on and rest. Come, Come sit down with me and rest." The boy sat down and the tree was glad and smiled with tears.......

　　This is a story of everyone. The tree is our parent. When we were young, we loved to play with Mom and Dad... When we grown up, we left them, and only came to them when we need something or when we are in trouble. No matter what, parents will always be there and give everything they could to make you happy. You may think that the boy is cruel to the tree but that's how all of us are treating our parents.